How to Call In The Right Romantic Partner
Affirmations for love 💕
I am attracting the perfect person for me.
I love who I am, and so does my partner.
I am worthy of a healthy, loving relationship.
I deserve to be happy in my relationship.
I am overwhelmed with love!
I love myself.
Our everyday life is simply made up of a bunch of manifestations we have made consciously or subconsciously! Whether you believe it or not, every job, every relationship, and every circumstance has been manifested into your life, in some way shape or form. Manifesting is essentially bringing something tangible into your life through attraction and belief. So, when it’s time to get specific on what exactly it is that you were trying to call into your life, there is more to manifesting than just a simple belief. Many people are trying to call in this ideal partner and this idea of someone that will make them happier. When in reality, you are not going to be able to call in the perfect partner, without first being secure and ready in your own love life(I.e loving YOURSELF) first!
Have you ever heard the saying, “Just bad timing”? There is such thing as bad timing, and that “timing” can be not being fully developed and evolved to call in that specific relationship. A lot of times I see relationships fail due to the lack of equality in the work each person has done on their own time. You may be compatible and you may want it to work, bad timing could also mean it just wasn’t a partner for you.
Let’s break it down. You’re probably wondering how do I call in this perfect partner you talk about… A real place to start manifesting is with you! A lot of us carry emotional baggage, that we don’t quite realize hinders our ability to find that certain someone. As soon as you can start identifying your traumas and triggers in this area of your life, you can start doing the work and weeding out the fog.
Get clear on what it is you want to call in – What is important to you?
Distinguish between what you want and what you need in a partner. Wants are negotiable, needs are not. When distinguishing your wants we need to be realistic, and less superficial. Instead of calling in someone that is based on their physical appearance, try digging deeper and think about attributes of them as a person. Are they funny? Are they spontaneous? Are they mysterious? Do they have drive and ambition? Are they outgoing or introverted? Now, when you’re looking at your needs, needs are those qualities that matter to you most, such as values, ambitions, or goals in life. Needs are usually things you discover but a person once you get to know them a little bit better.
Now, look at what it is this person does on a daily basis. How do they live their life? Are they somebody that goes to the club a lot? Or are they somebody that is usually found going to yoga on the weekends, and staying in and cooking dinner? These are things you have to look at when calling in your desired partner so that you have no conflict of interest. This also gives you some Intel on where you’re going to meet this person-
Are you showing up every day as your best self?
Who is it that you want to be? Do you feel you are living out the life you imagine for yourself with the partner you desire?
Showing up every day as the best version of yourself, and the person that you essentially want to be in life will call in the frequency of a partner to match. Don’t make your search for a relationship the center of your life. Concentrate on activities you enjoy, your career, health, and relationships with family and friends. When you focus on keeping yourself happy, it will keep your life balanced and make you a more interesting person when you do meet someone special. Essentially our partners will be mirrors of our current life situation. So you want to make sure that near someone that you would want to date as well!
What’s the Difference?
If in your mind, you would like to manifest someone who is a homebody, likes to cook, has visions for the future and family…chances are, you’re not going to meet a certain someone at the club. We’re not saying you won’t, but statistically speaking odds are low. You can’t simply manifest something into your life if you’re not taking the actionable steps to get there. This goes for everything in life, not just a romantic partner. If you want to have your dream body, get into fitness, and start eating a clean diet, you aren’t going to get there if you keep sneaking cookies in the pantry every night, and sleeping in. So, the same goes for a romantic partner. If you’re somebody who likes to go to the club every night, doesn’t typically go to the gym or prioritize health and wellness, but your dream partner is someone who does. Chances are your frequencies are not aligned. When this is the case, people usually end up meeting someone who turns out to be a clashing partner.
You have to be the person you want to be, first, and order to meet the person you desire.
Diving in
Now that you are clear on what it is you want, showing up as your best self, and aligning yourself with the frequency of your manifestation…it’s time to put more actionable steps in the place. Dating! We are all for dating, and we think it’s a great way to meet people, and get clear on what it is exactly you want and don’t want. We’re not saying start swiping right on every person you find on bumble, but maybe start hanging out in the places and social settings where you may meet a certain someone.
Instead of scouring dating sites or hanging out in pick-up bars, think of your time as a single person as a great opportunity to expand your social circle and participate in new events. Make having fun your focus. By pursuing activities you enjoy and putting yourself in new environments, you’ll meet new people who share similar interests and values. Even if you don’t find someone special, you will still have enjoyed yourself and maybe forged new friendships as well.
Have fun!
Dating should be fun, and we believe that being single should be even more! It’s important to not make dating the end-all, be-all of your life. When you go on a date, instead of thinking about all the possible outcomes, and whether or not this person is the one, go into it like a friend hang out. Have lighthearted energy around the situation and date. This not only takes the pressure off both of you, but your energy will be more fluid and natural, and I promise you the conversation will not get boring. It’s important to be present and just be yourself when it comes to dating. So many people try to be someone they’re not just to make sure that this person likes them. But, why would we want to be someone we’re not, and find out three years later you’ve ended up in a toxic relationship that you are now trying to exit.
It’s the law of attraction! What you constantly think about, you will constantly be creating in your life. So why not start practicing the law of attraction and manifestation with intention. Finding the right person is just the beginning of the journey, not the destination. Remember to love yourself first and foremost, and be yourself. When you love yourself wholeheartedly, your desired partner knows exactly how to love you back!
xx,
The Collective Ritual
